dating online????have fun ..but!

Living in the age of information technology ‘online dating’ is not a buzz these days. The internet becoming indispensable to us, computer as a integrated part of human life today million of people are using internet as a medium of finding a suitable partner or a better half. As the time passing day by day; life is being invaded by this complicated structure of “flip-flops” which has now started to influence our intellectual and emotional self being.

Talking about ‘how to stay safe in the Online dating scene’ let me tell you; the online dating is entirely different experience from the real one. In real life dating where you are very much worried about your body language, how you say, what you say, your appearance, what the partner think of you; in stead of that here you are completely relaxed, comfortable with your self being trying to impress the one who at the other end does the same like you.

Really it is fun to go online dating. Isn’t it? It is fun but it is quite challenging too, particularly when you are serious about it. Unlike the real dating here dating is more casual. During that casual moments we need to follow some do’s and don’t which, I think can be helpful in staying safe in online dating scenes:

Look for how much serious he looks for dating. Keep your eyes and ear open to find the exact motive behind. What they say: try to read between the lines. Do not make some early judgment about the fellow because as per your judgment you will tend to share more things with him.

You need to control your emotion also. True, emotions bring us closer but during those emotional moments we are more vulnerable to share our secrets. Here you avoid sharing personnel information like your address and phone number.

Do not discuss how much money you are making or what the assets you own. At the most you can tell you company name and your position in it but telling how much money you have….is inviting troubles. You never know when the sunny day will change to the cloudy one.

Talk about even those things which you or he feels irrelevant. That small chat can give you some important clues about him. Remember here you do not have your eyes or ears to catch those physical signals his body language radiates. It has to be done all by the chat you see.

Maintain the dignity and do not hesitate to convey it to him it will give him a thumping impression about you. Moreover it will not let the embarrassment embrace you quite a few occasions if somehow you diverted from main topic of discussion. To be precise online dating never meant to be for that. You need to meet for that you see.

If you are planning to materialize the online dating for the real face to face meeting just talk about it to your close friend or guardian. This not only will help you analyzing the partner, it will make you happier by talking about it with your friend/guardian.

Quite often just take a casual examination of him which is a very important aspect of ‘how to stay safe in the online dating’: How much he is willing to come ahead for you. You might be knowing many example of people, in love, going even beyond their countries for their so called ‘ultimate guy’ who they later detected was not even the ‘complete’ one.

These are few of the things you need to know to stay safe while dating online. True; online dating can never give you that thrill and excitement which you rightly expect from a one-o-one; the real one "date", still it will definitely help you access the complex nature of the human behaviour.