Monday, June 30, 2008

dating online????have fun ..but!



Living in the age of information technology ‘online dating’ is not a buzz these days. The internet becoming indispensable to us, computer as a integrated part of human life today million of people are using internet as a medium of finding a suitable partner or a better half. As the time passing day by day; life is being invaded by this complicated structure of “flip-flops” which has now started to influence our intellectual and emotional self being.

Talking about ‘how to stay safe in the Online dating scene’ let me tell you; the online dating is entirely different experience from the real one. In real life dating where you are very much worried about your body language, how you say, what you say, your appearance, what the partner think of you; in stead of that here you are completely relaxed, comfortable with your self being trying to impress the one who at the other end does the same like you.

Really it is fun to go online dating. Isn’t it? It is fun but it is quite challenging too, particularly when you are serious about it. Unlike the real dating here dating is more casual. During that casual moments we need to follow some do’s and don’t which, I think can be helpful in staying safe in online dating scenes:

Look for how much serious he looks for dating. Keep your eyes and ear open to find the exact motive behind. What they say: try to read between the lines. Do not make some early judgment about the fellow because as per your judgment you will tend to share more things with him.

You need to control your emotion also. True, emotions bring us closer but during those emotional moments we are more vulnerable to share our secrets. Here you avoid sharing personnel information like your address and phone number.

Do not discuss how much money you are making or what the assets you own. At the most you can tell you company name and your position in it but telling how much money you have….is inviting troubles. You never know when the sunny day will change to the cloudy one.

Talk about even those things which you or he feels irrelevant. That small chat can give you some important clues about him. Remember here you do not have your eyes or ears to catch those physical signals his body language radiates. It has to be done all by the chat you see.

Maintain the dignity and do not hesitate to convey it to him it will give him a thumping impression about you. Moreover it will not let the embarrassment embrace you quite a few occasions if somehow you diverted from main topic of discussion. To be precise online dating never meant to be for that. You need to meet for that you see.

If you are planning to materialize the online dating for the real face to face meeting just talk about it to your close friend or guardian. This not only will help you analyzing the partner, it will make you happier by talking about it with your friend/guardian.

Quite often just take a casual examination of him which is a very important aspect of ‘how to stay safe in the online dating’: How much he is willing to come ahead for you. You might be knowing many example of people, in love, going even beyond their countries for their so called ‘ultimate guy’ who they later detected was not even the ‘complete’ one.

These are few of the things you need to know to stay safe while dating online. True; online dating can never give you that thrill and excitement which you rightly expect from a one-o-one; the real one "date", still it will definitely help you access the complex nature of the human behaviour.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

THE BABY:father of computer!

“THE BABY” turns 60 this year. Amusing? Isn’t it? Yes, even if it turns thousands of years it remains “THE BABY”; for “THE BABY” is not a living creature… rather it is a man made machine. A machine that today you know as the computers which were conceptualized by this so called “THE BABY”. In fact ‘THE BABY” is known as the first actual digital computer.
Thought its name was “THE BABY”, it was never a baby, except in efficiency. Built in 1948 at Manchester in England this machine was heavier than the hundred of the computers of this age. It used thousand of the valves. While in operation it consumed one third of the total power of the town. It occupies the space more than two rooms.
That was the time of Second World War. “THE BABY” was being built under high security since it was the cutting edge technology of that time. In spite of all these VIP like treatments; it had a RAM of mere 128 bytes. It could only subtract not even multiplication or addition.
Today we are living in the era of super computer still the role of “THE BABY” in the development in the mankind can not be ignored. Like the invention of the Fire “THE BABY” also changed the course of the actions of human race.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008


One fact you would agree with me that India is diversified not only in cultural and sociological values but also in geographical terms as well. All I am talking about weather. Here you will find the great Indian sub continental weather:-Hot and humid. Forget that healthy climate of Europe or your so comfortable weather you have been accustomed to. Here you are at the disposal of extreme variations from dusty hot heatwaves to humid monsoon then later to chilling cold. What they say; Love it or hate it but you can not forget it that is all I can define the Indian weather.
But you see here it is Nainital comperately lesser known town of northen India around 300 kms away from the capital city Delhi known for it colonial history and natural beauty. Most of the Indian state is located in the plains of Ganges and other rivers but this hilly town is 2000 meter above sea level a favourite place of the English in 19th century. If you are looking something familiarized peace or better climate have a trip to Nainital for that experience.It won’t disappoint you. Afterall: it has been my place you see…..

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Career in telecommunication sector in India

Hold on! If you think you are doing something professional course in telecommunication sector in India and your sector has not much to offer you I beg your pardon. I too thought in that way 10 years back when I was a college student, unwillingly studying the telecommunication; yearning for IT fascinated with the growth story of Infosys, Wipro etc... Remember??? Just few year back when a traditional phone; weighting you around half a kilogram was a status symbol; currently is replaced with those high-tech slim mobile sets and their role also has been changed. Now those are being used for your address verification. You agree with me? This was a picture of just 5 -6 year back when we had nothing to communicate except that land line.
And now here is good news if you please……it is believed that India is 4th largest market in the world. We are having the world lowest call rate and fastest growth in the number of subscribers. By 2015 there will more than 1 croce jobs only in telecom sector. Trust me not but trust the data those expert provide you daily.
The telecom sector is not all about making calls to the people in their leisure hours making their life hell by offering them the products which probable they never buy.There are so many role to fulfill here. This includes software engineer, communication engineer, technical support provider, network engineer and of course sales and marketing executives whom you see quite often and listen and curse too. If you have anything from MBA to diploma, degree, software skill, communication skill or anything worthwhile you are always going to be welcome in coming few years in mobile sector. Today this sector is more attractive from anything else including IT.
· Although there is lot much variation in the salaries in this sector still if you put better efforts your salary can hike expontially. Here being in metros is more beneficial since cheap labour is available in the small towns and people willing to work even on a very low wage. Salaries for entry level-executive positions in sales and marketing range anything between Rs. 1.5 lakhs-Rs. 3 lakhs per annum. Salaries for middle management hover in the Rs 4.5 lakhs-9 lakhs range.
· . Salaries for entry level-executive positions in sales and marketing range anything between Rs. 1.5 lakhs-Rs. 3 lakhs per annum. Salaries for middle management hover in the Rs 4.5 lakhs-9 lakhs range.

Ryan international school and poor children from slum!

It was the two faces of childhood: one photo was of the laughing, happy not bothered about the camera shooting them and another group of children, rescued on Antichild labour day: frightened, poor, tired looking into the camera curiously, unaware about the future written for them. The first photo of the laughing children was from Ryan international School, Mumbai who were just returning back from Canada after a co- pilot learning course. Well dressed, healthy and happy.......they had big dreams; some are planning to be pilot, someone for IIT and someone for the career which i never even heard of. The second photo was also from the same Mumbai: 12 boys rescued on Anti Child Labour Day from different hotels, restaurant, tea stall. They are working hard to earn some money to meet both end meet. No dreams in their eyes only innocence, careless what is there for them on next day. It is just one day passed. Not living the life; just pushing it. I thought the children from Ryan international School will have children going to the same school probably and the rescued children?? Will their children go to school even? This is how, they say: Life goes on.